Why would anyone want to make the shift from being in the ‘Drama Triangle’ where everything we experience is as a result of what the world is doing to us! For many it is convenient to play the blame game because then one is absolved of taking responsibility for one’s own life and choices. 

So, here are 11 benefits to shifting from an external locus of control - everyone and everything outside of ourselves, to one which is internal - the inner self awareness of how we and the choices we make are a reflection of our knowledge of self and in taking responsibility for our choices and their consequences.  

1. Increased Self-Confidence leads to a sense of self-assurance and belief in one's abilities as you become more confident in your judgment and capability to navigate life's challenges.

2. Authenticity and Self-Expression as you express your true self and align your choices with your values and desires.

3. Fulfillment and Satisfaction that arises from a deeper level of contentment as you actively shape your reality and create a life that resonates with your aspirations.

4. Improved Mental and Emotional Well-being as you feel more capable of influencing your circumstances positively. This leads to less stress, anxiety, and a more positive outlook on life.

5. Resilience and Adaptability is nurtured as you Embracing empowered positive choices nurtured adapt to handling life's challenges, bounce back from setbacks, and embrace change as growth.

6. Healthy Relationships and fulfilling connections with others as your choices encourage you to set boundaries, communicate effectively, and engage in mutually respectful partnerships.

7. Personal Growth and Development as you choose to engage in continuous self-discovery, learning from your experiences, and eve-olve into your truth

8. Influence and Leadership as your embrace your role in inspiring and influencing others to embrace empowered choices in their lives. This ripple effect leads to positive change within families, communities, and society as a whole.

9. Enhanced Problem-Solving Skills and more considered choices that can be applied to various aspects of your personal and professional lives.

10. Shape your Life's Direction and path as you set and achieve meaningful goals, and fulfil your aspirations.

11. Contribution to Societal Progress:in making a meaningful contribution to society via your career and work, advocacy, or volunteering.

To find out more about our Choices Learning experiences, browse around the Choices website and let us know how we can help you to embrace a life lived as a responsible citizen. 

There are also options available for those wishing to pursue a career as either a Peer Educator and / or a Choices Facilitator. The Choices Movement needs you, your gifts and talents! 

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